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Saturday, June 23, 2012

My personal progres June 16-23, 2012

 TargetActually Done
Leadership BibleBe on page 875 (5 pg a day)On page 876
Faith in Action BibleBe on page 1050 (6 pg a day)On page 1051
Message Read Through7 Days youversion programOn track
Running25 miles a week24
Running 2012 Overall1212 miles by 12/12/12394.5
Crunches1000 a week1000
Floss7 times a week7 Days
Face Cleaning/Lotions7 times a week7
I Like Book7 times a week7
Modules2 a week3
Social Events3 a quarter7
Guy Time10 X a quarter6
Self Exam3 a week3
Book Reading1 Book a week1
Evening Prayer Meeting26 times a year11
Paid Speaking3 a quarter1
Date with Cara3 a quarter2
Date with Rachel1 a quarter0


I am taking about 10 days of vacation right now and I feel the impact.  Each morning I wake up and feel more determined and focused.  Somewhere within me compassion is starting to get a foot hold on my heart again.  I am not good at going on vacation but this one was needed.
The book this week was called Endurance.  It is the story of Shakleton's voyage.  This is an incredible story of a leader not losing his cool despite the fact that everything seemed to come against him.  It also tells the story of men who would not surrender no matter what.  I highly recommend this book.
Overall I am content this week and enjoying the time with my family.  This is good for me.  I again feel the ability to dream again.  I am nearly ready to rejoin the fight where the past couple of weeks I have felt like I am merely surviving.  Soon I will be fighting and seeing the power of God again.

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Hero Quest Chapter 2 part 7

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From a couple of blocks away John could see his house.  The lights were inviting.  Even from this distance he could imagine the pleasant smells coming from the kitchen.  Home was safe.  It was a place of rest and acceptance.  He pushed the button on the garage door opener and pulled into the garage.  He took a deep breath of relief to have made it home as the events of the day swirled in his head.  With his eyes closed he again thanked God for getting him home safely. 
Gathering his gear, he heard rustling coming from the far side of the garage.  Already a bit on edge, he put the gear back down.  The thought came to him to shut the garage door so that he could catch the would-be thief, before he could get away.  Casually John pushed the button and grabbed his hiking stick that was sitting in the corner of the garage.  So much for a relaxing night at home he thought.  Methodically and smoothly he moved around the van on the other side of the garage.  What he saw made his tension go away.  There before his wary eyes appeared his beloved daughter.  Annie giggled as only a ten year old daughter can.  As much as with relief as with love, he hugged her and they headed toward the house. 
She raced ahead of him and made the announcement, “Daddy’s home!”  John set his gear down by the door and moved to Corrina in her apron.  She lit up when he walked in the room.  He was again reminded that she was indeed a beautiful woman.  His look must have betrayed his thoughts.  With his arms around her, he gave her a full on the mouth kiss.  He then heard the moaning from all three of his kids.  “Don’t you guys ever get enough?”  John thought about that only a moment before he said, “Not really.”
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            The kitchen really was filled with the smell of joy.  John was ready to eat, and it looked like dinner was ready.  He shared stories from the Shelter, heard about the day each of the kids had experienced and there was laughter and interesting questions.  Finishing up the last bite, John asked, “Whose dish night is it anyway?” 
Silence filled the room.  Suddenly fingers were pointing in every direction. “I’ll take care of the dishes.”  John stated as he reached his hand out to Corrina.  A slight gleam entered her eyes and he twinkled back at her as she stood to her feet.  John showed her to the living room, and motioned for her to sit.  He then took charge of the kitchen.
As he removed the dishes from the table, he pointed to his youngest, “So how’s your room look?”  Ricky looked at him and studied his face for a moment trying to decide if dad would be checking on his answer.  After a moment without a word, Ricky headed off to his room to clean it up.  John again smiled. 
He then looked to Alex, “Hit the showers and when I’m done here I’ll beat you in Stratego again.”  Alex punched John on the arm.  “Keep dreaming, Dad.”  Alex was only eight but was already showing signs of a master strategist.  His brain worked very fast and he liked to build things.  John reflected in that moment of the massive Lego construction projects that Alex had made over the years. 
He was incredibly proud of all his kids; but for vastly different reasons.  They all offered him opportunities to laugh, cry, get mad and get motivated.  But they each had their own gifts, personalities and behaviors that offered him a challenge on a daily basis. 
Ricky liked to create as well, but his work was mostly two dimensional. He liked tape and paper.  Oh, let’s not forget the staples and post-it notes!  John had learned how to discover what the latest creation was by simply asking Ricky to tell him about what it did or where he got the idea.  Ricky was all too happy to share what was going on in his head.  Since Ricky was the youngest, John had to protect him by giving him an opportunity to talk.  It seemed that his brother and sister were always talking for him.
Ricky was also very slow in accepting the faith of his family.  He would go to church and Sunday School but did not like the idea of anyone living in his heart.  It was only a few months ago that he asked Corrina to pray with him for Jesus to live in his heart.  Corrina had cried and John had nearly exploded with joy; but the seed of faith had been planted in his heart.
      Now Annie, as the oldest, was determined to be a missionary and rescue girls who were living as slaves.  She was currently interested in doing rescue work in India and John was very impressed with her gumption.  But as a dad, he was concerned about sending his baby into such a dangerous place.  Often, during his times of prayer, John had prayed that she would change her mind.  Sometimes though he simply prayed that if she went that God would keep her safe. 
            Just a short time later Annie was sitting on the love seat reading, Ricky now finished with the chore of tidying his room, was lining up his cars around the living room rug and Alex was setting up his pieces for the game.  Corrina looked around the room and smiled.  Conversations were coming and going about nothing in particular.  Sometimes the kids would talk about some movie that they had seen once and John would shake his head at how they could remember such small details but never remember to keep their room clean.  It was just another quiet evening at home, John felt warm, safe and secure.  The kids were happy.

Monday, June 18, 2012

Real Life at the Crisis Shelter June 11-17, 2012

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Weekly highlights

Monday June 11:    One of our families discovered that they had head lice.  We isolated them while they worked through treatment.  Fortunately, this family had their own room.  A couple of our moms are showing a consistent disregard for the instructions of staff.  We are talking to them about how to better handle frustration.                 
Tuesday June 12:   Moved a single to phase 2 when she was having personal care issues that were impacting her room mates dramatically.  Two of our singles are having a bit of war of words that seems to be escalating.  We were trying to handle it with conversations. But it did not take long until threats were flying.  When we checked into things one of the singles had been out and just walked into the room when the threats happened so the “attacker” was asked to leave.  She left dramatically.  CPS called us and asked us to move a mom who’s daughter was having trouble with her roommate’s daughter.  We complied.  We checked in a young woman who is overly friendly with the kids (picking them up and playing with them).  The moms are getting nervous.  Staff have witnessed this guest being touchy (not necessarily inappropriate but not always welcomed).  We are talking to her and have given her strong encouragement to change her behavior.        
Wednesday June 13:     One of our guests took too much of her medication and went to the hospital.  They had made some adjustments to her medications and she misunderstood what she was to take.   One of our moms had a court date today that she was stressed over.  Staff had prayed with her about the court case on Tuesday where they mostly dropped the case.  She will still need to go to rehab in about a week but the charges have been dropped.
Thursday June 14:   When I returned to the shelter from teaching the Engaged work seminar at the mission, three police cars were in a blocking position in the parking lot and there were social workers and police all over the place.  One of out moms that we checked in the night before had been reported to CPS by the police before they dropped her off.  CPS had been looking for this mom and came to take the child.  She was a flight risk.  The officer gave her a chance to take a drug test to keep her kids when she maintained her innocence.  We offered to take the test for her but she refused.  Ultimately the police took the child.  One of our volunteers took a tour of IChoice with one of our guests.  This was eye opening and a blessing for the guest.  We had a mom who we have had numerous conversations with about keeping her kids with her.  She simply refused so she was asked to leave.  Our single with hygiene issues has now been moved out of the shelter completely as she refuses to make improvements.       
Friday June 15: We did lots of breathalyzer tests tonight.  They all came out negative!       
Weekend:    On Saturday in two separate, unrelated incidents ladies fell and hit their heads very hard.  Both times (within 30 minutes of each other) ambulances were called and the ladies went to the hospital.

General comments:   We had a staff/volunteer potluck at Oasis Park on Saturday.  We had a good time and then closed by going to the shelter to pray for peace since it has felt very disruptive as of late.  Things were quiet on Sunday and Monday.  One of the ladies who fell was released later that night and was fully ok.    
    

Sunday, June 17, 2012

My personal progres June 10-16, 2012

 TargetActually Done
Leadership BibleBe on page 840 (5 pg a day)On page 840
Faith in Action BibleBe on page 1008 (6 pg a day)On page 1011
Message Read Through7 Days youversion programOn track
Running25 miles a week20
Running 2012 Overall1212 miles by 12/12/12370.5
Crunches1000 a week1200
Floss7 times a week7 Days
Face Cleaning/Lotions7 times a week7
I Like Book7 times a week7
Modules2 a week3
Social Events3 a quarter7
Guy Time10 X a quarter6
Self Exam3 a week0
Book Reading1 Book a week0
Evening Prayer Meeting26 times a year11
Paid Speaking3 a quarter1
Date with Cara3 a quarter2
Date with Rachel1 a quarter0


I am starting to come out of the funk of the past couple of weeks.  The battle is still heavy and drains me emotionally.  One of the principles that I will cover in my Your Hero Quest book will be the principle of rest which includes vacation.  This will be me next week.  I look forward to relaxing with my mom and dad as  well as spend some focused time with my kids. 
I am a man of endurance and I push hard to accomplish as much as possible.  When I was a child I was called lazy and I have lived my life in an effort to disprove that accusation.  But I have learned over the years that it is Jesus himself who has sustained me and encouraged me forward in Him.  He has blessed me and allowed me to fullfill my dreams.
This week I also received a copy of my first book.  Hero Quest.  I can hardly tell put into words how joyful that I feel.  I thought when I became a Christian nearly 15 years ago that I had lost that dream.  But God is a restorer of dreams.  Might I live in His dreams daily.