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Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Hero Quest Chapter 1 Part 9

It’s pretty ugly.
John looked past Darlene and could see the two ladies standing toe to toe.  “Yeah ok.  Go back to Anne.  She needs you.”  John scratched his head, rubbed his chin and reentered the meeting.  “I’ll be right back guys.  I have a situation that needs my attention.”   John considered the situation.  “What is this all about?  They were best friends yesterday? This might be tricky.”  Coolly, John crossed the parking lot near the two ladies.  “What’s going on?”  Immediately John regretted the question. Both ladies yelled accusations and hatred.  Something about a guy getting kicked out of the mission, maybe something about another guy being a punk, John couldn’t make much out of what they were saying.  “This might take a bit longer than I got right now,” John thought to himself.  “Listen ladies.  You both seemed a little angry right now.  Let’s do this.  Go to your rooms and breathe and work to compose yourself just a bit.  I’m in a meeting right now and when I’m done; I’ll bring you down to the office and see if we can’t get this straightened out.”  Amazingly it worked.  Though they both let out a loud, “Huff!” They both went to their individual rooms.  Smiling, John returned to the meeting still in progress.  “Sorry, everyone.” 
Following the meeting Ron wanted to tour some of the recent changes.  Normally, this was exciting for John since he loved to show off the shelter.  But today, all John could think about was the fire simmering in the guest rooms.  He prayed that they would stay put until the tour was over.   Also in the back of his mind was the whole situation with Anne. 
The fake leather chair felt like a safe place for the moment as John considered his next move.  Maggie was now on duty.  During the meeting a shift change had taken place.  “Corrina has that conference tonight.  So, John, set up Maggie for success and call it a day.  I better get this battle over with.  Can’t leave it for Maggie.”  Muttering a quick prayer, John began to move toward room 9.  He had decided to deal with Becky first.  He had heard rumors from other agencies that she had tried to murder her ex-husband but was never charged.  “Strange,” he thought, “Until today I haven’t even seen a hint of anger coming from her.  I wonder if the guy she’s been hanging out with from the mission is the same guy that Child Protection said she tried to kill?”  The very thought of it made John nervous.  Taking a deep breathe, John knocked on the door.  Listening and hearing nothing John slowly opened the door. 
“We can talk when my social worker gets here and not before.”  John stepped back from the force of her words.  “She’ll be here in about 20 minutes.  If you’re going to kick me out you need to do it with her being here.”
“I didn’t know I was kicking you out.  I just wanted to…”
“I don’t care what you wanted.  Are you kicking that b- out?  You better.  If she stays I will be calling the media.” 
“Wow.”  John walked out of the room and laughed silently.  “Really, is that how it is?  I still don’t know what’s going on.  But from what I’m seeing I better get her out of here or it’s going to be a long night for Maggie.”  John crossed the parking lot to room 3 and invited Sarah to come down to the office.  With an almost joyous smile, Sarah grabbed her two kids and drug them down to the office.  “This is really easy.  That bimbo is hooked up with a punk who got my man in trouble at the Men’s mission.  I want her gone or I will take you to court.”
“Really.”
“Yeah, having her here is a danger to my kids.  If something happens to them, it’s your fault.”
“I don’t know how that could be if you are keeping them with you at all times.”
“You tell people this is a safe and healing environment.  You’re a liar.”  Sarah’s words from there broke down into ranting curses.
“Can you at least tell me what is going on before I make any decisions?”
Sarah stood to go. “It’s none of your business you son of a …” 
“The thing is Sarah is that you have made it my business.  John watched out the window as Maggie worked to help out a wide array of other guests’ needs.  John thought, “At least I’m not alone but I sure wish that Maggie was in here with me.”  “Listen, Sarah, what I am seeing right now convinces me that you aren’t safe.  I really hadn’t decided what to do with any of this since I still don’t know why Becky and you are so angry.  I have no idea what I have to do with any of this except that I need to help there be peace here.  That is my job.”
Sarah glowered at John.

Monday, March 12, 2012

Real Life at the Crisis Shelter March 5-11, 2012


Monday March 5:    It came out that one of our ladies who is on our real jobs program had been not telling the truth about the shifts that she was working.  When some things came up that we had to verify her work schedule her supervisor said that she was not scheduled to work.  She had previously asked to go out with some friends.  She was asked to leave.  On her way out she convinced another guest to move with her.   One of our guests who professes to being a witch, came to staff to ask for prayer as her stay here as convinced her that God is real.
Tuesday March 6:  One of our former guests came for accountability.  She was offered the opportunity to stay at the shelter if she could pass a UA (urinalysis) she stated that she would not pass.  She was invited to come on back when she thought that she would pass.  A guest tested positives for amphetamines.  She was asked to leave but made it clear that she thought that she was innocent.  She gained some support from another guest but we make it clear from the beginning that we hold to our test.  One of our more challenging guests moved out today!
Wednesday March 7      
Thursday March 8:   One of our guests was feeling very anxious and looking for clothes for her husband who discovered that he had an interview today.  Since we don’t have a supply of men’s pants here she eventually gave him her pants and he wore those to the interview.  They were slacks and it must have looked ok since he got the job.  We received a donation of comforters and swapped them out into the shelter.  The other blankets that we had been using went to the Friday night outreach.    
Friday March 9:    One of our kids dropped her eyeglasses down the drainage pipe in the parking lot.  Volunteers came to the rescue and saved her glasses using a rake.  One of our guests who is typically bossy and negative was welcomed back on Thursday after accountability.  She is required to journal 5 positive things a day that she is thankful.   
Weekend:  Many guests are concerned about receiving the negative guest in their room.  There is much anxiety.  We will figure out what to do with her.    

General comments:   Soon we will be introducing Phase II.  This will be a room for those on accountability.  They will be checked in nightly from 5:30- 6:30 pm.  They will get a hot dinner if they show up between 5:30- 6:00 pm otherwise they will get sandwiches.  They will participate in small groups, classes or other activities at the Crisis Shelter.  They can stay until 7:00 am and will help with the Gathering Place Clean up daily.  Those in accountability will have varying times of stay before they will be given an official accountability meeting and reinstated to the regular shelter.   

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Progress on my goals March 4-10, 2012

 TargetActually Done
Leadership BibleBe on page 350 (5 pg a day)On page 350
Faith in Action BibleBe on page 420 (6 pg a day)On page 421
Message Read Through7 Days youversion programOn track
Running15 miles a week24.5 miles
Crunches1000 a week1000
Floss7 times a week7 Days
Face Cleaning/Lotions7 times a week7 Times
I Like Book7 times a week7
Modules2 a week6
Social Events3 a quarter2
Guy Time10 X a quarter7
Self Exam7 a week2
Book Reading1 Book a week1
Evening Prayer Meeting26 times a year6
Paid Speaking3 a quarter2
Date with Cara3 a quarter2
Date with Rachel1 a quarter0


This has been an incredibly busy week.  I feel a little tired but overjoyed that I pulled off the tasks that I set out to do.  I pray that my character is developing in line with Christ likeness.  This week I also celebrated my 10 year anniversary with Union Gospel Mission.  I find it amazing that I have now spent 1/4 of my life at the mission.  I came with the intent of making other people better; but instead they have changed me. 
My book this week was called The Greatest Salesman in the World Part II.  This book includes personal vows that will lead a person to life success.  Though this is the first time that I read it I am surprised by how many of these are already principles that I live by.