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Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Hero Quest Chapter 1 Part 12

“I’m moving too,” the woman from room two declared.  “You can’t be throwing out women and children just because you had a bad day.”
“Actually I’m not,” John started to say when he noticed Sarah walking into room 2 with a menacing look.
Wow this is getting out of control real fast.  John watched as Sarah lit up a cigarette in the room.
“You can’t smoke there.”
“Stop me. Big man!”
“Wow.  I’ll be giving you all about 10 minutes and then you will need to be gone.”
“I can’t pack up all of this stuff so fast.”
“I can help you carry it out,” John offered.
Initially the group said no but a moment later John was asked to carry a particularly heavy box.  As he went into the room he realized that Sarah was taking everything that was nailed down.  She had the shelter’s towels, curtains, blankets, dishes, coffee pot and even the smoke detector. 
“Ok John just keep your mouth shut and get them out of here.”  John picked up the box and started toward the door when he realized that Sarah was blocking his way.
“Excuse me,” John moved toward her.
“Whatcha gonna do big man?”
“Well I was going to help you.”
You want to hit me don’t you?  Well go for it, you wimp.”  She cursed him; but continued to hold her position.  John could not get out.  He set the box down and decided his best plan was to leave.  But how could he do that with this menacing figure standing right there.  He decided to fake right and go left and was able to get out with only a bit of a bit of shoulders bumping.
Suddenly it was as if the entire shelter exploded in noise.
“He hit me.   I’m calling your boss.”
John was already dialing his boss who had already received calls from the aunt.  “I think that I’m going to need your help.”
“Go ahead and call the police and have them take a statement.”
The arrival of the police was shocking to Sarah.  The aunt and she had disappeared into her room for a few moments.  When they came out Sarah suddenly had hand prints on her arms.  She showed them to the police that John had been abusive.
John meanwhile had gone to his office.  He had had enough and was simply weeping.  Things had happened too quickly.  John’s hope sat in his reputation.  “I know that I will not be fired.  I know that I will not be arrested.  Those women are lying.  Those are the facts.  But what hurts is that I have given this woman grace.  I could have put her out a dozen times but instead I gave her another chance.  Why is she doing this?”   The questions danced in John’s head.
“Are you all right?”  Maggie had escaped the check in office for a moment to check on her boss.
John could not speak.
“I had to tell the intern to back off.  She was going to beat Sarah to a pulp.  You know she has gang connections too.”
John started to laugh but only slightly.  Emotion was overwhelming him and he knew he was done.  “I would leave but I better talk to the police first or they will think that I am trying to escape.  I’ll be ok but I am so done right now.” 
“What can I do?”
“I’ll tell you what. I’ll call the mission and let them know we won’t be coming to chapel tonight.  Go ahead and get dinner.  The intern can cover check in for current guests and get the new families checked in.”  John began to kick into leadership mode.  “They won’t be able to move in until the rooms get cleaned but that’s ok.  Hey, before you leave have a couple of the ladies standing by so they can serve dinner.”
“We don’t usually do that?”
“Listen, its time to flex.  We can’t have the ladies in these rooms but they can hand out food.”
“That makes sense.”
“It looks like my boss has the point outside.  Our job now is to hold this place together until she is gone.”

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Real Life at the Crisis Shelter March 26-April 1, 2012


Monday March 26:   A youth group arrived to give pedicures, foot massages, make crafts and play with the kids.  What a great evening!  Staff held an accountability for one of our guests and she was invited back in.  One of our guests refused to participate in the modules so she was given one last night before she was asked to leave.    
Tuesday March 27:  One of our guests planned on blowing out today but her ride canceled so she was forced to stay another night.  This is the second time that she felt like leaving but circumstances have kept her at the shelter.  God must want her here for a bit longer.  Staff dealt with many parenting issues.  Monday night group returned with more of the same.  The ladies felt loved!
Wednesday March 28  Guest that God had been holding in place left on foot today with her belongings and her man.  I am confident that she will be back some day.  Another guest got a job today!    
Thursday March 29:  Kicked off Phase II program today.  No guests used it.  Phase II will be a room for those who can not stay in regular shelter for some reason.  They might be out for a week or on accountability.  Essentially they come in at 5 pm and must leave by 8am.  They must take their belongings with them when they go for the day.  They get food and evening classes.       
Friday March 30:  One of our guests is over medicated we are working to help her pull it together.  Another guest was stealing from her room mates and asked to leave.  Another guest in that room was taken to the hospital by ambulance. Another guest got a job today.        
Weekend:   We had several ladies using our phase II over the weekend and worked through some challenges.  A guest who has repeatedly violated our guidelines was given a same day accountability and it worked beautifully.  She left and returned with a new attitude.  She continued her stay.

General comments:   We have just begun the phase II program and are fine tuning this week but I believe that this will work great!         

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Progress on my goals March 25-31, 2012

 TargetActually Done
Leadership BibleBe on page 455 (5 pg a day)On page 456
Faith in Action BibleBe on page 546 (6 pg a day)On page 546
Message Read Through7 Days youversion programOn track
Running15 miles a week21
Running 2012 Overall1212 miles by 12/12/12198.5
Crunches1000 a week1000
Floss7 times a week7 Days
Face Cleaning/Lotions7 times a week7
I Like Book7 times a week7
Modules2 a week2
Social Events3 a quarter2
Guy Time10 X a quarter10
Self Exam7 a week3
Book Reading1 Book a week1
Evening Prayer Meeting26 times a year8
Paid Speaking3 a quarter2
Date with Cara3 a quarter3
Date with Rachel1 a quarter1


I close out the first quarter of the year.  Not too bad.  Though I did not accomplish all that I set out to do, I did accomplish alot.  Sometime this week I will be adjusting my quarterly goals on here to reflect some of the changes that I have decided will need to be made to keep me on track for the next quarter. 
The book this week was Mastering Your Way to the Top.  This was a very insightful book that was also fun to read.  I want to be a master communicator.  That part is wierd because I really like silence best.  However, I have been feeling God pushing me to develop more skills at communication on a one on one basis.  Also learning to ask for help and encouragement will be a new skill that I will need to develop.
I begin this quarter wondering what God has in store for me.  I hope that at the end of the next quarter I will have qualified to go to Orlando for the World Champion of Public Speaking.  I hope to have had some interesting conversations with politicians and others of influence.  I am hopeful to have a Heroquest website, twitter account and Facebook fan page up and running.  So much to do, so little time.