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Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Hero Quest Chapter 2 part 3

In the parking lot, the dumpster was being put back into position after being emptied.  The driver of that truck was amazing.  John remembered watching the driver maneuver between cars, snow banks and people last winter to put that dumpster right where it belonged.  With this many people at the shelter it was always a relief to have an empty dumpster.  Before the truck even got out of the parking lot the maintenance truck pulled in with the housekeeping team.  One of the guys jumped out when he saw John.  John directed them to rooms 16 and 17 so they could deep clean those rooms. 
While they were parking their van, he saw the truck from the Thrift Stores stopped on the busy street waiting for traffic to pass.  The Mission’s logo was plastered prominently on the sides of the truck for all to read.  The mission hoped to cultivate a community presence, to be familiar around town.  This also made him smile.  The work that the Mission was able to do was really only possible because of the generosity of this community. 
John’s smile widened as he watched the driver of the thrift store truck try to navigate on the busy street in front of the shelter.  There wasn’t much room to maneuver in the parking lot as he was attempting to back in.   Since the street was busy, he was using the parking lot across the street to get himself lined up for a straight shot into the shelter lot.  Four lanes of traffic stood between the driver and the shelter gate.  The problem was the business across the street was a brothel with a bikini espresso bar attached.  John wondered what donors would think if they saw the Mission’s truck in that vicinity.  He decided to help out and get that truck moving.  Cautiously, he moved out into traffic and stopped the cars.  The driver rocketed across the street, apparently eager to exit the vicinity of the bikini bar and all it represented. 
John realized that what he had just done was a picture of the job they had to do at the Shelter.  We help people get into a better position to launch them into a new life. This illuminating thought brought new life to John.  What an honor, he thought.
After welcoming the driver, Bob, he helped him load the donations into his truck.  As Bob pulled down the back door they insulted each other as only men who really like each other can, shook hands in farewell, and John returned to the duty of getting that clog fixed.   
     The basement smelled musty, but musty was one of the better smells at the Shelter.  At least this smell was predictable and that fact alone comforted him.  Strangely he walked past the work bench that housed the tools and simply walked around the basement.  His memory returned to a time when there really were no lights.  He had strung extension cords and lamps around this place.  It may not have been safe, but it had to be lit somehow. 
His eyes looked at the shelves of soap, shampoo and other toiletries that had all been donated. Somehow seeing the full shelves of toilet paper, feminine products and other assorted necessary items again spoke to him of a God who provides.  To most people these were just common items, but to those that were staying at the Shelter, most of whom had nothing, these items were priceless.  He smiled as he took time to speak a prayer of thanksgiving.  As he finished his loop of the basement, he grabbed the wrench, took a blue bucket to place under the pipe and began heading toward room five to open that drain. 
When he stepped out into the parking lot he noticed the donation truck was still there.  “That’s weird,” thought John.  He looked in the office.  Darlene was still talking with the lady she was with earlier.  No Bob.  John looked all around the parking lot and saw not one soul moving around.  As he moved down the sidewalk he could see Bob halfway under the hood, scratching his head. 
Bob gave a crooked smile. “Ah, you got jumper cables?  I left the lights on while we were talking.”  Again, Bob had brought a smile to John’s face.  Bob seemed to know this would be fodder for jokes for a long time but it couldn’t be helped.  John set down his tools.  He went to his little compact car, moved it into position and rooted around in the trunk for the jumper cables.  After attaching the cables, he looked at the enormity of the delivery truck next to his little car.  It looked like a mouse next to an elephant. His smile lines crinkled once more.  After a few moments the large truck was up and running.  Carefully, John pulled off the cables put them back into the trunk, moved his car out of the way, waving good-bye to Bob one more time. 

Monday, May 7, 2012

Real Life at the Crisis Shelter April 30-May 6, 2012

Weekly highlights

Monday April 30:  The developmentally delayed 25 year old man moved to stay with extended family in Ohio.  Mom was grieving but stayed with us.  She was very grateful for the exception.  One of our singles went on a second interview.  Some of our ladies are catching spring fever and are chasing men all over the place.  Staff have had many conversations about this addiction with them.  Most are open to discussion.         
Tuesday May 1:   Two of our singles are butting heads.  Both are very head strong so it has been interesting to work through the dispute with them.  Right now the conflict demonstrates itself in little nasty comments but this can quickly escalate so we are monitoring the situation closely.  One of our more anxiety driven guests almost moved out in a moment of frustration but then after conversation decided to stay.  We had to expand into another room to make room for singles.  One of our moms had her children taken by CPS today.  They were here waiting when she returned for the day.  Matters were complicated by the fact that she was running late.  CPS did a good job of keeping everyone calm during the situation.    One of our overflow guests was dropped off by the Spokane police who were surprised that we were willing to help her at all since they feel that she is a dangerous person, though they do not have enough evidence to take her in.  We agree based on past performance at the shelter, she has the overflow option only and that has low impact on the rest of the shelter.
Wednesday May 2:   One of our guests has been appearing angrier lately than is usual.  It looks to be relationship issues outside of the shelter.
Thursday May 3:    Pray for one of our consistent phase 2 guests.  She has lived a fairly rough life and has several illnesses that have resulted for her.       
Friday May 4:   One of our singles had been drinking.  The story is that her grandmother bought her the alcohol so that she would get kicked out and then have to move back in with her abuser.  I’m not sure if that true, but she was fairly drunk.  To compound matters she takes a lot of medication that does not work well with alcohol.  After she left (she was given the option of not drinking the rest of the day and then using our phase 2) she wandered the neighborhood and kept drinking until she passed out on East Sprague.  Paramedics were called and when they aroused her she became verbally abusive to them.  Since she had made some suicidal comments they took her in for evaluation.
Weekend:     Lots of “ah ha” moments for several of our ladies as they begin to understand that God has made them to be Royalty in the Kingdom of God.  Many conversations and classes are having an impact.  By the end of the weekend there were assorted dramas around the singles not getting along.  We are watching these situations carefully.

General comments:  This coming Thursday and Friday will be our first Guest Assistant/Good Worker retreat.  This will take place out at the camp and we are very excited over this event!                
    
Current Crisis Shelter Purpose Statement:

Sunday, May 6, 2012

My personal progres April 29-May 5, 2012

 TargetActually Done
Leadership BibleBe on page 630 (5 pg a day)On page 630
Faith in Action BibleBe on page 756 (6 pg a day)On page 756
Message Read Through7 Days youversion programOn track
Running25 miles a week26
Running 2012 Overall1212 miles by 12/12/12289.5
Crunches1000 a week1100
Floss7 times a week7 Days
Face Cleaning/Lotions7 times a week7
I Like Book7 times a week7
Modules2 a week3
Social Events3 a quarter3
Guy Time10 X a quarter2
Self Exam3 a week3
Book Reading1 Book a week2
Evening Prayer Meeting26 times a year10
Paid Speaking3 a quarter0
Date with Cara3 a quarter1
Date with Rachel1 a quarter0


We all have people and things that come against us reaching our goals.  In my goal setting workshops and in my life change seminar I cover some ways to increase your odds of success.  One of those ways is to seek accountability.  That is why I post this each week.  So that you can see my progress and boo or cheer me depending on what I am doing.  More importantly I do not wish to disappoint, so I push myself to meet or exceed my own standards.
I long to live heroically.  I read a book this week called the Butterfly Effect.  It essentially points out that doing little things can cause huge chain reactions to the future that may very well change the world.  The other book that I read this week The Resolution for Men, is simply refocusing me toward becoming the man that I want to be.
The other push this week was having a semi informal marriage counseling session.  I long to be a heroic husband and father.  This desire often serves against me as my own disappointments can prevent others from being totally honest with me.  Basically, I am falling short but nobody tells me so I think that I am doing great!  How sad.  I long to be open, transparent and continue on with my drive to live heroically in all areas of my life.
Next week will be very busy. I pray that I will be able to push through the challanges and meet my own standards head on.