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Sunday, April 15, 2012

Progress on my goals April 8-14, 2012

 TargetActually Done
Leadership BibleBe on page 525 (5 pg a day)On page 525
Faith in Action BibleBe on page 630 (6 pg a day)On page 630
Message Read Through7 Days youversion programOn track
Running25 miles a week20
Running 2012 Overall1212 miles by 12/12/12238.5
Crunches1000 a week1000
Floss7 times a week7 Days
Face Cleaning/Lotions7 times a week7
I Like Book7 times a week7
Modules2 a week3
Social Events3 a quarter0
Guy Time10 X a quarter0
Self Exam3 a week2
Book Reading1 Book a week1
Evening Prayer Meeting26 times a year8
Paid Speaking3 a quarter0
Date with Cara3 a quarter0
Date with Rachel1 a quarter0


The book that I finished this week was on servant leadership.  It was very challenging, not to read but to live out in the real world.  Among the most profound concepts that I believe will shape me in the future is the revelation given by Jesus in the feeding of the 5000 or the 4000.  There was a problem.  In this case the people were hungry.  Andrew worked at the problem and realized that he could not manufacture a response.  How true!  We try to do this with problems that we face all of the time and it is often impossible.  However, he goes to Jesus who is capable of manufacture.  Jesus multiplies the loaves and fishes and then shows Andrew and the rest our real part in God's plan.  We are to be distributors of God's blessings.  When we allow God to manufacture and we choose to distribute we will see miracles take place.
I fall a bit short on my running but feel good about my overall progress.  The next two weeks will be on finishing the book Hero Quest and getting it ready to send to the publisher before the month is out.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Hero Quest End of Chapter 1

Maggie nodded and went into action.  John called the mission to let them know that they would not be participating and also reported that the shelter was full.  “There is no way we will bring anybody else into this mess right now,” John told himself.  Then John called Corrina.  “I am so sorry honey.  I’m not sure when I will be home.  I know that I promised that I would be home a little early.”  John started to get choked up.  “What’s wrong John?”  “Just pray.”  John squeezed out.  “Everything is falling apart.  Look I need to go.” 
    John pulled himself together and sat in his office waiting to see what would happen next.  He focused his thoughts.  The waiting was killing him though.  “I feel like I am wasting time doing nothing.” 
His boss stopped by to check on John.  “Are you all right?”
“I will be.  Corrina was going to a conference tonight so I need to go pretty soon.”
“We’ll see what the police think.  But you should be able to leave soon.  She told me that I was as useless as you.”  John’s boss started to chuckle.  “She is not a nice woman.”
John nodded in agreement.
“For what it’s worth I heard several of the other guests telling the police that you had your hands up in the air and did not actually hurt her in anyway.  There was one gal; I think her name is Jennifer.  She told the officer that you couldn’t do that, because you had too much respect for women.”
John began to cry.
“Do you know how many times I’ve had to kick Jennifer out of this shelter for different reasons?  For her to support me is incredible.”  John couldn’t stop weeping now.  His boss went out to check on the latest.  Maggie returned with dinner.
After talking with the police John was free to go and returned home.  After a short recounting of events he encouraged Corrina to go to the conference while he stayed with the kids.  During devotions the reading particularly spoke to him and he started to cry again.  His emotions were frazzled.  Normally, he would have led the children in prayer but tonight, he simply asked them to pray for him.  All three of his kid put their hands on their daddy’s head and prayed for him.  After they were tucked in, John went for a run on the treadmill, took a shower and spent the rest of the evening seeking God.

Monday, April 9, 2012

Real Life at the Crisis Shelter April 2-8, 2012

Weekly highlights

Monday April 2:   Two of our ladies got jobs today!  One if full time and one is part time.  Two of our singles were having a dispute.  We are noticing a trend with one of them that she routinely has conflict with younger ladies that are coming from a more affluent background.  One of our guests was preparing to leave and had a ride on the way when she had a chance encounter with a staff member that spoke to her heart and she decided to wait out getting into the program.  Phase II went much smoother after a couple of small adjustments and a phase II guest added to the accountability list.    
Tuesday April 3:   One of our guests was smoking in the bathroom.  Another guest engaged in some heated arguments in the middle of the night with our guest assistants.  The Guest assistants did a great job deescalating the situation well enough to get us to the morning.  However, the guest was clearly threatening the guest assistants so she will be moved to phase II.
Wednesday April 4:  The threatening guest decided that she did not want to do phase II but was willing to do overflow.  The night was not much different than it had been as a regular shelter guest.  She threatened guest assistants and staff in the morning and is now on all three accountability lists.  This series of decisions was a difficult call since this woman has been going through chemotherapy. I understood the discomfort and the pain but the threats were not ok in community living.  A donor dropped off small cheesecakes for the guests.  They were all very happy!
Thursday April 5:  A huge verbal battle took place in room 5.  It seems that one of the women had stolen a sucker from one of the other guests in the room.  Staff was able to bring resolution for the night but there is still tension.  The police came to take in the son of one of our guests.  He has been running away from the juvenile center and mom has routinely protected him from them.        
Friday April 6:   The mom who’s son was taken on Thursday refused to take a drug test and was asked to leave.  Two of the three from room 5 battle decided to leave on their own.        
Weekend:  Incredible support came from the community to celebrate Easter.  On Saturday one church provided transportation to an egg hunt.  They all returned to the shelter in time to meet up with the Easter bunny.  Then on Sunday morning another church provided baskets full of goodies to everyone.  The shelter is well sugared! Thanks Spokane, I think.  

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Progress on my goals April 1-7, 2012

 TargetActually Done
Leadership BibleBe on page 490 (5 pg a day)On page 492
Faith in Action BibleBe on page 588 (6 pg a day)On page 590
Message Read Through7 Days youversion programOn track
Running25 miles a week20
Running 2012 Overall1212 miles by 12/12/12218.5
Crunches1000 a week800
Floss7 times a week7 Days
Face Cleaning/Lotions7 times a week7
I Like Book7 times a week7
Modules2 a week2
Social Events3 a quarter0
Guy Time10 X a quarter0
Self Exam3 a week2
Book Reading1 Book a week0
Evening Prayer Meeting26 times a year8
Paid Speaking3 a quarter0
Date with Cara3 a quarter0
Date with Rachel1 a quarter0

This was a rough week in many ways.  I felt burned out and moody toward the beginning of the week.  After taking a day off of work I did feel much better but then was behind on my goals.  I might have gotten further but since I now have a couple of offers for my book I needed to spend some focused time on that task.  Being a hero takes lots of time, I don't take this lightly.  But I trust God to be my guide and help me to be the hero that he wants me to be.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Hero Quest Chapter 1 Part 12

“I’m moving too,” the woman from room two declared.  “You can’t be throwing out women and children just because you had a bad day.”
“Actually I’m not,” John started to say when he noticed Sarah walking into room 2 with a menacing look.
Wow this is getting out of control real fast.  John watched as Sarah lit up a cigarette in the room.
“You can’t smoke there.”
“Stop me. Big man!”
“Wow.  I’ll be giving you all about 10 minutes and then you will need to be gone.”
“I can’t pack up all of this stuff so fast.”
“I can help you carry it out,” John offered.
Initially the group said no but a moment later John was asked to carry a particularly heavy box.  As he went into the room he realized that Sarah was taking everything that was nailed down.  She had the shelter’s towels, curtains, blankets, dishes, coffee pot and even the smoke detector. 
“Ok John just keep your mouth shut and get them out of here.”  John picked up the box and started toward the door when he realized that Sarah was blocking his way.
“Excuse me,” John moved toward her.
“Whatcha gonna do big man?”
“Well I was going to help you.”
You want to hit me don’t you?  Well go for it, you wimp.”  She cursed him; but continued to hold her position.  John could not get out.  He set the box down and decided his best plan was to leave.  But how could he do that with this menacing figure standing right there.  He decided to fake right and go left and was able to get out with only a bit of a bit of shoulders bumping.
Suddenly it was as if the entire shelter exploded in noise.
“He hit me.   I’m calling your boss.”
John was already dialing his boss who had already received calls from the aunt.  “I think that I’m going to need your help.”
“Go ahead and call the police and have them take a statement.”
The arrival of the police was shocking to Sarah.  The aunt and she had disappeared into her room for a few moments.  When they came out Sarah suddenly had hand prints on her arms.  She showed them to the police that John had been abusive.
John meanwhile had gone to his office.  He had had enough and was simply weeping.  Things had happened too quickly.  John’s hope sat in his reputation.  “I know that I will not be fired.  I know that I will not be arrested.  Those women are lying.  Those are the facts.  But what hurts is that I have given this woman grace.  I could have put her out a dozen times but instead I gave her another chance.  Why is she doing this?”   The questions danced in John’s head.
“Are you all right?”  Maggie had escaped the check in office for a moment to check on her boss.
John could not speak.
“I had to tell the intern to back off.  She was going to beat Sarah to a pulp.  You know she has gang connections too.”
John started to laugh but only slightly.  Emotion was overwhelming him and he knew he was done.  “I would leave but I better talk to the police first or they will think that I am trying to escape.  I’ll be ok but I am so done right now.” 
“What can I do?”
“I’ll tell you what. I’ll call the mission and let them know we won’t be coming to chapel tonight.  Go ahead and get dinner.  The intern can cover check in for current guests and get the new families checked in.”  John began to kick into leadership mode.  “They won’t be able to move in until the rooms get cleaned but that’s ok.  Hey, before you leave have a couple of the ladies standing by so they can serve dinner.”
“We don’t usually do that?”
“Listen, its time to flex.  We can’t have the ladies in these rooms but they can hand out food.”
“That makes sense.”
“It looks like my boss has the point outside.  Our job now is to hold this place together until she is gone.”

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Real Life at the Crisis Shelter March 26-April 1, 2012


Monday March 26:   A youth group arrived to give pedicures, foot massages, make crafts and play with the kids.  What a great evening!  Staff held an accountability for one of our guests and she was invited back in.  One of our guests refused to participate in the modules so she was given one last night before she was asked to leave.    
Tuesday March 27:  One of our guests planned on blowing out today but her ride canceled so she was forced to stay another night.  This is the second time that she felt like leaving but circumstances have kept her at the shelter.  God must want her here for a bit longer.  Staff dealt with many parenting issues.  Monday night group returned with more of the same.  The ladies felt loved!
Wednesday March 28  Guest that God had been holding in place left on foot today with her belongings and her man.  I am confident that she will be back some day.  Another guest got a job today!    
Thursday March 29:  Kicked off Phase II program today.  No guests used it.  Phase II will be a room for those who can not stay in regular shelter for some reason.  They might be out for a week or on accountability.  Essentially they come in at 5 pm and must leave by 8am.  They must take their belongings with them when they go for the day.  They get food and evening classes.       
Friday March 30:  One of our guests is over medicated we are working to help her pull it together.  Another guest was stealing from her room mates and asked to leave.  Another guest in that room was taken to the hospital by ambulance. Another guest got a job today.        
Weekend:   We had several ladies using our phase II over the weekend and worked through some challenges.  A guest who has repeatedly violated our guidelines was given a same day accountability and it worked beautifully.  She left and returned with a new attitude.  She continued her stay.

General comments:   We have just begun the phase II program and are fine tuning this week but I believe that this will work great!         

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Progress on my goals March 25-31, 2012

 TargetActually Done
Leadership BibleBe on page 455 (5 pg a day)On page 456
Faith in Action BibleBe on page 546 (6 pg a day)On page 546
Message Read Through7 Days youversion programOn track
Running15 miles a week21
Running 2012 Overall1212 miles by 12/12/12198.5
Crunches1000 a week1000
Floss7 times a week7 Days
Face Cleaning/Lotions7 times a week7
I Like Book7 times a week7
Modules2 a week2
Social Events3 a quarter2
Guy Time10 X a quarter10
Self Exam7 a week3
Book Reading1 Book a week1
Evening Prayer Meeting26 times a year8
Paid Speaking3 a quarter2
Date with Cara3 a quarter3
Date with Rachel1 a quarter1


I close out the first quarter of the year.  Not too bad.  Though I did not accomplish all that I set out to do, I did accomplish alot.  Sometime this week I will be adjusting my quarterly goals on here to reflect some of the changes that I have decided will need to be made to keep me on track for the next quarter. 
The book this week was Mastering Your Way to the Top.  This was a very insightful book that was also fun to read.  I want to be a master communicator.  That part is wierd because I really like silence best.  However, I have been feeling God pushing me to develop more skills at communication on a one on one basis.  Also learning to ask for help and encouragement will be a new skill that I will need to develop.
I begin this quarter wondering what God has in store for me.  I hope that at the end of the next quarter I will have qualified to go to Orlando for the World Champion of Public Speaking.  I hope to have had some interesting conversations with politicians and others of influence.  I am hopeful to have a Heroquest website, twitter account and Facebook fan page up and running.  So much to do, so little time.